Sometimes, I find it difficult to communicate. I often find that I am unable to impart what I really mean to say.
For instance, I remember one of my close friends talking about an injury she got in an accident as a toddler and my immediate response was "Its good thing that I was not around, I might have hurt you more". Everyone in the group stared at me. I am sure that I reminded them of the worst sadist possible. And I got so flustered that I couldn't explain that when she was a toddler, I would be the same and obviously would have been just a menace in the situation.
Another time, when someone was worrying about some family problems, I tried to lighten the situation by quoting a story from the newspaper. And she felt that I meant her family is so bad that it should appear as a gossip in newspaper.
And, then I try not to talk to avoid such situations and then am branded as a horrible person who doesn't even mingle with people.
WHAT TO DO ???
HA! Whatever!!!
What ever you say, I am me and I will remain the same self centered person that I am.
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